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		<title>7 Adorable Babies Throwing the Cutest Tantrums of All Time</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jan 2013 22:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kylie McConville</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Babies. Sometimes they&#8217;re cuddly. Sometimes they&#8217;re fussy. Sometimes they throw the most adorable temper tantrums that we&#8217;ve ever seen. But they&#8217;re always cute. So when we came across these seven &#8220;aww&#8221; inducing tantrums, we couldn&#8217;t help ourselves. You&#8217;ve got to see how cute these babies can be when they don&#8217;t get their way! Plus, more...<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blog.thebump.com&#038;blog=33418031&#038;post=11091&#038;subd=xothebump&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:center"><img src="http://xothebump.files.wordpress.com/2013/01/ft3dwd9t.jpg?w=650" /></p><p>Babies. Sometimes they&#8217;re cuddly. Sometimes they&#8217;re fussy. <strong>Sometimes they throw the most adorable temper tantrums</strong> <strong>that we&#8217;ve ever seen</strong>. But they&#8217;re always cute. So when we came across these seven &#8220;aww&#8221; inducing tantrums, we couldn&#8217;t help ourselves. You&#8217;ve got to see how cute these babies can be when they don&#8217;t get their way! </p>
<p><strong>Plus, more from The Bump:</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://pregnant.thebump.com/new-mom-new-dad/baby-photos/slideshows/funny-onesies.aspx" target="_blank">Babies Wearing Funny Onesies</a></p>
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		<title>The Hangry Monster &#8212; The Real Cause of Most Toddler Meltdowns</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 14:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Picking up my three-year-old daughter, Lovie, from school at 3:30 like I do every day, I peeked into the window of her room and saw her sitting right in front of her teacher who read from a book. One of her classmates saw me and feverishly started pointing in my direction while nudging Lovie. She...<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blog.thebump.com&#038;blog=33418031&#038;post=8345&#038;subd=xothebump&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:center"><img src="http://xothebump.files.wordpress.com/2012/06/girl-pulling-pigtails-cropped-thinkstock_90400981-2.jpg?w=650" /></p><p>Picking up my three-year-old daughter, Lovie, from school at 3:30 like I do every day, I peeked into the window of her room and saw her sitting right in front of her teacher who read from a book. One of her classmates saw me and feverishly started pointing in my direction while nudging Lovie. She followed the classmates pointed finger, saw me standing there like a goofy madwoman waving and smiling, and frowned. I should’ve known then that the drive home would be hell-like.</p>
<p>After pulling out of the school’s parking lot, Lovie asked for some water so I gave her a bottle of water that was sitting in my cup holder. “It’s broke, Mama,” she said.</p>
<p>“Well, we’ll have to get a new one,” I stupidly said.</p>
<p>So that’s what she wanted: a new bottle of water. Right at that moment.</p>
<p>She proceeded to scream and cry while kicking the back of the passenger seat during the entire 45 minute drive home. I tried ignoring her and the screaming escalated. I tried telling her I understood what she wanted &#8212; even repeating it to make sure that’s what she wanted (to go to the store for water) &#8212; and that calmed her for three seconds until I stupidly said that she already had water in her hand.</p>
<p>The meltdown, the worst I’ve ever seen from her, became epic when I turned onto the streets leading to our neighborhood and she realized we weren’t going to the store after all. That’s when she started gagging and having a hard time catching her breath from all the screaming and crying&#8230; Because I wouldn’t stop at the store for a bottle of water… like the bottle of water she was holding.</p>
<p>I pulled into my spot in the back of the house and Lovie absolutely refused to get out of the car when I tried unbuckling her from her seat. I closed the car door, pressed the alarm button on my key chain to lock the door (locking her in), and walked to the front of the house to get the mail. It was that or <em>I</em> was about to start screaming and crying.</p>
<p>When I returned, Lovie wasn’t in her car seat and I had a mini stroke until I saw her sitting next to it in the middle of the back seat of the car. I opened the door and she screamed, “No I don’t wanna go inside!” I tried not rolling my eyes and screaming back; instead, I showed her a package of leggings that came in the mail for her. She stopped screaming and crying long enough to catch her breath and I continued to softly and calmly talk to her, trying to coax her out of the car.</p>
<p>“Do you want a banana?” I asked.</p>
<p>Lovie looked at me with a wet face, sniffling and licking the snot dripping from her nose, and managed to whimper out a “Yeah.”</p>
<p>I scooped her up, promising her a banana inside the peel all to herself. We got upstairs and I immediately got her the banana.</p>
<p>“I can eat this in the living room by the tee bee?” she asked.</p>
<p>“Yeah, baby.”</p>
<p>“You come wit and watch tee bee?”</p>
<p>“Sure, baby.”</p>
<p>We walked together down the hall and sat on the couch where she devoured half the banana before putting it down and asking for more fruit. Apparently, girlfriend was the definition of <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=hangry">hangry</a> because she was normal Lovie the rest of night.</p>
<p>The thing is, I always &#8212; always &#8212; carry snacks for her with me in my bag. She knows this. She’s almost three and she’s been rummaging through my bag or asking for snacks for two years now.</p>
<p>So why didn’t she just ask me for a snack instead of demanding I stop for water, which she held in her hands?</p>
<p>I will never know.</p>
<p>But I do know that when the tears and screaming start coming, I must offer food to ward off that Hangry monster who I never care to see again.</p>
<p><strong>Does your toddler have <a href="http://pregnant.thebump.com/toddler/toddler-basics-19-to-24-months/articles/how-to-tame-a-tantrum.aspx">meltdowns</a> often? How do you prevent and deal with them?</strong></p>
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		<title>Parenting According to The Guncles</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2012 16:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shannon Guyton</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You may know Bill Horn and Scout Masterson, “The Guncles,” from Tori &#38; Dean: Home Sweet Hollywood. They’re the adorably warm couple who, as the first gay parents on reality television, gave the world its first glimpse into what parenting as two dads is really like. Bill and Scout chatted with us candidly about the...<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blog.thebump.com&#038;blog=33418031&#038;post=7420&#038;subd=xothebump&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:center"><img src="http://xothebump.files.wordpress.com/2012/10/billhorn-scoutmasterson-and-simone-cropped.jpg?w=650" /></p><p>You may know Bill Horn and Scout Masterson, “The Guncles,” from <i>Tori &amp; Dean: Home Sweet Hollywood</i>. They’re the adorably warm couple who, as the first gay parents on reality television, gave the world its first glimpse into what parenting as two dads is really like. Bill and Scout chatted with us candidly about the terrible twos, their funniest dad moments and their (free!) adoption mentoring program, <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.gunclesonline.com/hold_my_hand.html">Hold My Hand</a>.</p>
<p><b>The Bump: Simone turned two in June. Have you experienced the <a href="http://pregnant.thebump.com/toddler/toddler-basics-19-to-24-months/qa/babys-two-year-checkup.aspx" target="_blank">“terrible twos”</a> yet?</b></p>
<p><b><i>Scout:</i></b> She loves practical jokes and trying to trick us, so we’re very careful about falling into those traps. When we put her down at night, about an hour later, she’ll get up and say, “My tummy hurts,” and, “I need to go to Daddies’ bed.” The first time she did it, we said of course! Then she asked us to kiss it to make it better and proceeded to lay down with her arms behind her head and said, “Ooooh, so much better!”</p>
<p><b><i>Bill [laughing]:</i></b> Yeah, we caught on to that one quickly. Going through these terrible twos, we say, “Use your words.” One of the most annoying things is when she goes from 0 to 60 over the fact that she can’t reach her juice. We don’t want to make a huge deal out of [the tantrum], but we definitely want to put the kibosh on it.</p>
<p><b>TB: It’s hard to know sometimes that it’s not actually a nightmare or a tummy ache!</b></p>
<p><b><i>Bill:</i></b>A tip for parents: Don’t be afraid to put the kibosh on something you know is wrong. I’d wake up at 4 a.m. and she’d be at the side of my bed, screaming, “Let me in the bed!” One night I went to bed snuggling our Chihuahua, Jessica, and when I woke up at 5 a.m., I was spooning with Simone.</p>
<p><b>TB: Do you guys have good cop/bad cop roles in parenting?</b></p>
<p><b><i>Bill:</i></b> Scout could disagree, but I think I’m probably more of the bad cop.</p>
<p><b><i>Scout:</i></b> I do have Bill put Simone to bed. He does the final shutting off of the lights, and he always says she’s going to hate him for that. When I do it, I find myself in the “Okay, what else do you need?” mode.</p>
<p><b>TB: How do you guys split up responsibilities at home?</b></p>
<p><b><i>Scout:</i></b> In our home, we pick up where the other one leaves off and keep everything moving forward. We don’t leave something sit and say, “That’s your chore.” We have my mom as our “granny nanny” who comes a few days a week while we’re working.</p>
<p><b>TB: How do you <a href="http://pregnant.thebump.com/new-mom-new-dad/your-life/articles/10-date-night-ideas-for-new-parents.aspx" target="_blank">make time for each other</a> now that you’re parents?</b></p>
<p><b><i>Scout:</i></b> Well, we work together&#8230;so we see each other plenty! We’re on the show regularly and out there publicly doing events together, which is just the two of us, so there is a break.</p>
<p><b><i>Bill:</i></b> Honestly, we’ve found we’d much rather do something new and exciting as a family.</p>
<p><b>TB: Simone has her own <a rel="nofollow" href="http://simonefashionblog.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">fashion blog!</a> Is there anything Simone loves to wear that you can’t stand, or vice versa?</b></p>
<p><b><i>Scout:</i></b> She has an opinion about everything she wears, and she’s very fashionable. She won’t wear sneakers without pink in them. Shopping for shoes is hard because we’re not into the light-up shoes and shoes with 75 colors of glitter on them.</p>
<p><b><i>Bill:</i></b> It’s been funny to see her gravitate toward pink. We didn’t push it or do a lot of princess stuff as a baby, but she’s really gravitated toward it. We have our own dad sign language when we’re in a store shopping, where I point to Scout and he’ll block the shoes before she can see them.</p>
<p><b>TB: That’s so funny! Okay, I want to talk about </b><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.gunclesonline.com/hold_my_hand.html"><b>Hold My Hand</b></a><b>, your adoption mentoring program. Can you tell me more about what you guys do and how people can get your help?</b></p>
<p><b><i>Scout:</i></b>It started when we went through the adoption process with Simone [three and a half years ago] on <i>Tori &amp; Dean: Home Sweet Hollywood</i>. We found ourselves getting a lot of emails and questions from people in the [adoption] process. We launched Hold My Hand officially last November during adoption month. Since then, we’ve helped about 100 families! We handle everything from helping people assess their situations and get the process moving to helping pick things out in a nursery. We’ve gotten emails in the middle of the night with the first pictures of adopted babies we helped place, which is really exciting. We have our amazing daughter now, and we want to help others make their dreams come true too.</p>
<p><b>TB: Do you have different advice for same-sex couples adopting, or is it the same process that everyone goes through?</b></p>
<p><b><i>Bill:</i></b> Generally, the overarching process is the same, except there are different rules in different states that are more accommodating to gay couples than others. You just have to do your research and know what the law is and what the hurdles will be.</p>
<p><b><i>Scout:</i></b> We’ve helped, and love to help, all kinds of families. Anyone who reaches out to us, we will help them. Same-sex couples, single moms, families who have had other children naturally and want to expand their families, single gay dads&#8230;all kinds of families. We’re starting the process of adopting again, so we’re right there with them.</p>
<p><b>TB: We all go through similar things as parents, and from what I can tell, your family is just like mine, but are there things that are unique to being two dads?</b></p>
<p><b><i>Scout</i>:</b> Our home is a lot like everyone else’s. Now that Simone is in school, we’ve definitely had to explain she has two dads and other people have a dad and a mom. But another classmate of hers has two moms. That’s one of the reasons we love doing a reality show, is that we get to show people we’re just like everyone else. There are examples of gay families on television now that are so exaggerated, that I’m glad that as a reality-based show, we’re able to show the way it really is.</p>
<p><b><i>Bill</i>:</b> I think there are two things that are really different for us. One is some of the reactions we get from the outside. We get questions like, “Who’s the female and who’s the male?” Most of the time, it’s coming from a good place, but it can be hurtful. Also, one of our biggest hurdles is potty training. Obviously, she can’t go to the ladies’ room by herself, and when men go to the bathroom, they’re pigs [so we don’t want to take her in there]. So we got this little portable potty that pops up that she can use.</p>
<p><b><i>Scout:</i></b> We get irate when we go to a place and they don’t either have a changing table in the men’s restroom or a have family restroom. It’s not about us being gay parents; it affects all dads. The message is to women that it’s your job to change the baby &#8212; it’s 2012, and our families are operating in all kinds of ways.</p>
<p><b>TB: Besides your must-have on-the-go potty, are there any other <a href="http://pregnant.thebump.com/baby-products.aspx" target="_blank">baby gear</a> items that you can’t live without?</b></p>
<p><b><i>Scout:</i></b> I don’t know what we’d do without our <a href="http://blog.thebump.com/2012/08/31/scan-this-origami-stroller-video/">Origami stroller</a>.</p>
<p><b><i>Bill:</i></b> We’d have to fold and unfold the stroller ourselves. Who wants to do that?</p>
<p><b><i>Scout:</i></b> Well, yeah! And we use Skip Hop products every day. Simone walks into the school with her Skip Hop backpack and is currently packing her <a href="http://blog.thebump.com/2012/06/12/scan-this-skip-hop-zoo-luggage/">Skip Hop Zoo luggage</a> for our weekend getaway.</p>
<p><b>TB: What’s been your funniest dad moment?</b></p>
<p><b><i>Scout:</i></b> We were at Target last week and we were looking for a new kids’ shampoo. She’s decided her shampoo needs to smell like strawberries. So I’m looking at the section and I’m saying, “I don’t know, Simone, I’m not seeing anything like that,” trying to get her over to the Burt’s Bees ones. So she said, really loudly, “Bend over!” I said, “What?” She screamed, “I SAID, BEND OVER!!” Everybody in the section was looking at us.</p>
<p><b><i>Bill:</i></b> I gave Simone water at bedtime and she said, “I don’t want water. I don’t like water. It sucks.” I have to watch what I say!</p>
<p>To follow The Guncles, find them on Twitter at @TheBillHorn and @ScoutMasterson. For more information on Hold My Hand, <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.gunclesonline.com/hold_my_hand.html">click here</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Plus, more from TheBump.com</strong></p>
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<p><a href="http://pregnant.thebump.com/getting-pregnant/adoption.aspx" target="_blank">Adoption: What are your Options?</a></p>
<p><a href="http://blog.thebump.com/2012/10/12/tia-mowry-talks-baby-products-family-fun-baby/" target="_blank">Tia Mowry on her Favorite Baby Products and Favorite Family Traditions</a></p>
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